Over the past few days I've had the opportunity to sit down and think. Think about life and its meanings. Often times we take many things for granted. We know when we do, but sometimes we don't. Yet, we need to know not to do it -- because Karma is a bitch and she will show up on your door at any time of day, and it's a very scary thing to deal with.
As I sat down and thought of the many things that have happened in life, I realize there are a few things I've taken for granted. Below are a few I wanted to express to you that way you know what not to take for granted, because eventually it will eat you up -- and life will get difficult to live.
1.) When your parents tell you "enjoy childhood" do. I can't stress this point enough. I remember many instances in my childhood where I would say, "oh, I can't wait to grow up and live by myself." But now that I'm doing that, I've learned that it's not all cooked up to what we think. When you live by yourself, you get stuck with bills (car, insurance, rent, medical, etc.) and it gets stressful. Especially when you finally realize how much your parents did for you. If I can change one thing right now, it would be to back into childhood and live as if those days were coming to an end -- because they eventually do and, if you are like me, you will want to go back -- even if you thought it was horrible. I know I've always wanted to be mom and dads little boy forever, but I realize now that I cannot do that. Part of spreading our wings is taking in the realization that we are not children anymore and we must be more independent thank what we were when we lived with our parents. This does not mean, however, that we still cannot love our parents. We will always be their children and they will always be here when we need them. Without a doubt. So take these words for what they're worth and next time you see your brothers, your sisters, mom and dad, take the time to tell them that you love them. Because life will throw curve-balls and you may not see them tomorrow...
2.) When you have someone in your life that is special, make sure that you tell them you love them too. Though there may be rough times on the road and a few bumps where and there, assure your soul-mate that you're there helping them and giving them your love. A long distance relationship is, I must admit, a very difficult thing to have. However, when you put your trust in someone you love, you know that things will work out. You may have big plans in store, but having the mutual bond and trusting love is the thing that comes first. Without the trust, relationships won't work. Whether you live across the mountain from each other, or all the way across the nation -- it can work out with that five letter word: t - r - u - s - t.
3.) Often times you meet someone in your life that you will have disagreements with. You may butt heads quite often, not agree with each other, not like one another every so often, but you must realize that they are human to and even though you may not agree with them, does not give you the right to react in an inappropriate manner. You may not be the best of friends, but you accept help when they offer... such as helping with some school work to get you that first place prize. When you take something like this for granted, you will learn that life works with Karma to throw hard balls at ya. Things happen and after you get to thinking about your past with that person, you begin to feel bad and know that it will be difficult to overcome, especially when Karma does harm to this person. One thing is for sure, though. Deep inside, even though you had your petty little arguments, your silly fights, and frustration with one another, you're always wanting to call him or her your friend. He or she taught you something valuable in school that you use for life, and because of that, your heart will have been touched by that person (friend or not).
These are the three main things I've been thinking of over the past few days. Maybe I'm wrong, but these are my perspectives on things that have been happening in my life lately. In conclusion, never take for granted your family, your special someone, or that person that gave you a life's lesson in school. Karma knows her cue -- and you're not gonna like it. It will eat you up inside, Karma gets to your soul.
